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Forgiven and Forgiving

Reading: Genesis 45: 1-15

Verse 5: “Do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you”.

Today’s passage centers on forgiveness. In the Christian faith we understand that forgiveness is a two-way street. Each Sunday most of us pray these words: “forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us”. If we want to partake of God’s mercy, grace, and forgiveness, we need to extend these same things to one another. For me, and perhaps for you, at times I struggle with each side of this equation.

It can be hard to admit we are wrong. It can be hard with both God and with others. There are times when it is difficult to admit I am wrong or have done harm. It can be easy to justify myself or to be self-righteous. Wanting to seek revenge or to get even can be tempting. But the way of love calls us to more. Jesus calls us to humility and honesty and transparency, to vulnerability and weakness, to confession and repentance. To enter and walk the path of Jesus, one must first practice forgiveness when we have sinned or caused harm. This was the first step for both Joseph and his brothers. For Joseph, it was to reckon with his younger self – the bratty, spoiled, arrogant Joseph – and the role that played. For the brothers it was to accept responsibility for what they did. Yes, God was at work behind the scenes, but they still harmed Joseph.

Sometimes it is difficult to extend forgiveness. At times it would seem easier just to keep that person on the outside, to keep them in a place where they cannot have a chance to be hurtful or harmful. (And, yes, there are times when it is necessary to end a relationship – in an abusive situation, for example.) As Jesus told Peter, we are not to forgive seven times, but seventy times seven! Just as we are each a work in progress before God, so too are all of God’s children. God has no limits or a quota on forgiving us. May we be the same, forgiving just as we are forgiven.

Prayer: Lord God, help me to ever be a person of grace. Help me to see and believe the best in everyone. Lead me to give my best and to recognize when I have given less, especially when I need to ask for or extend grace, mercy, and forgiveness. Guide me, O God. Amen.


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Come to the Light

What is a ‘Christian’?  Is it someone who goes  to church on a Sunday morning or someone who wears a Jesus t-shirt or someone who frequents the Christian coffee house?  Is it someone who volunteers once a week at the local mission or at the thrift store?  The answer can be yes – and it can be no.

It can be a fine line between living as Christ and doing things that are ‘Christian.’  One can certainly check off the boxes, but if it is to say “Look at all I do for Christ” then it is misguided.  The focus and attention is on us and not on Him.  It is an easy line to cross.  We often are, by our nature, self-centered and selfish.

To live as a “little Christ”, or Christian, we first must be humble – always He and never I.  Our actions need to be for the purpose of sharing the light of Christ.  We can do many things for Jesus.  We must do things with Jesus.  In humility we must always point towards Jesus.  When we love others we must always point to Jesus first loving us.

Humility also requires transparency.  In admitting our brokenness, we can point to the One who heals.  In confessing our sin, we can point to the One who forgives.  In sharing our struggles, we can point to the One who carries us when we cannot walk on our own.

When others always see us turning to Christ in our need, they will see their way too.  When see Jesus Christ as our center, they too will hone in on Him.  When we live as Christ lived, others will come to the Light.

Scripture reference: 2 Corinthians 4: 3-6